I chose
a book club at a library close to home. The book club goes by the name "The
Contemporary Book Club" and featured the book The
Other Typist by Suzanne Rindell and, luckily, I was able to read it before
joining the book club. I enjoyed the book and I was anxious to participate in
the discussion. The discussion was held in the juvenile programming room off to
the side of the center of the library.
The atmosphere was buzzing with excitement and joy with the anticipation
of meeting each other again. The room
was large with plenty of windows to allow the sunlight to peek in and set the
mood for the lively discussion that was about to take place. The table where we sat was big enough to seat
everyone comfortably with room to spare.
The chairs were hard and uncomfortable, but I hardly noticed once the
discussion began. There were no snacks
or drinks provided so everyone brought their own water.
The
branch librarian was responsible for leading the discussion. There were seven people in the group, including
myself and everyone seemed to know each other quiet well. I was told the group could be anywhere from 5
- 10 people, depending on the time of year and the book that was featured. After the introductions were made (for my
benefit), one particular woman explained that they were all retired teachers
and they meet up for the book discussion each month. They were a lively, intelligent group of
women who had me laughing throughout the discussion. I don't think I have ever enjoyed a book discussion
more than this one. The librarian
quietly sat down which was a cue to settle down and redirect our attention to
the discussion. The librarian asked
everyone if we finished the book and what did we think about it. Two women began talking at once but one of the
women respectfully let the other speak first.
The conversation flowed nicely without any one member demanding the spot
light. We were all able to share our
ideas without talking over each other.
It turned out that I was the only one at the discussion who really enjoyed the book. The other members thought the story line dragged and the main character was too confusing. They did not like the ambiguity of the ending. The facilitator let the group pick up the discussion as we twirled around ideas, viewpoints and perspectives. The book was a good choice for this group because there was plenty of material to cover and everyone had a different take on parts of the book. The facilitator waited for the discussion to die down before she asked questions that we did not cover initially. The questions mainly covered the nuances of the story or the subtle innuendos that did not carry through the major topics. She covered the plot, summary, characters, and the motivations behind their actions. She did not ask any yes or no questions, and even if she did, this group would not stop at just a yes or no answer.
The
discussion was lively due to the unconventional book being discussed. The story had many layers and each layer
could have a different interpretation depending on the reader's perception of
events. Everyone was well represented in
the discussion. I was the only person
who really liked the book due to its unconventional nature and unpredictable
ending. I was treated with respect for
my viewpoints and walked away feeling I provided a different perspective to the
story. There wasn't anyone who really
stole the spotlight. There might have
been a couple of women who were more animated in their interpretation of the
book and a few women who were naturally more subdued. The group worked well as a whole because of
the personal dynamics represented, with a mix of extroverts and
introverts. The conversation flowed
effortlessly and jumped from one topic to another in a logical order. The discussion did not veer off into
different directions or jump backward then forward. The discussion would have been easy to follow
even if I did not read the book.
The
books usually discussed at the book club are mainly mysteries with a female as
the main character and the time period is set in the early 1900's. Other books chosen for the discussion
include: Girl Waits with Gun by Amy
Stewal and Maisie Dobbs by Jacqueline
Winspear.
I
enjoyed my time at the book discussion and would like to continue to
participate as time will allow. The
group was warm and personable and the type of books chosen are appealing. The facilitator lead the group with subtle
guidance but mainly let the group explore the nuances of the book initially.
When the discussion lapsed, she would bring up a topic not already covered. The
discussion was not forced or ran into awkward silence.
Cynthia, it sounds like you had a wonderful experience. I like how you put it that the conversation flowed effortlessly. I think there is nothing worse than when conversation is forced. It just makes everyone uncomfortable. Your facilitator sounds a lot like the one I observed, allowing the conversation to flow and not interrupting with questions.
ReplyDeleteA good flow in the conversation really helps bring a good experience to a book club. I can understand being one of the only ones who really enjoyed a book in a group, and then explaining why I liked it. I am really glad that they were respectful and open to your opinion on it. Maybe that is one of the differences in going to a book club as an adult!
ReplyDeleteHi Cynthia. It really sound like you had a great time during your book club experience. It makes me wish that I had actually read the book for my experience. I decided to take on just an observation role and now I feel like I would have learned a bit more if I had been more a part of the discussion.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like a fun group! It also sounds like they've been meeting together for a long time and are very comfortable with each other, which makes for a really nice meeting. Since they're mostly all retired teachers, I'm sure it was a good discussion, but it's a shame there weren't more age groups represented. Are you a similar age to the rest of the group? Could that be a factor in why you liked the book and they didn't? I wonder if the group met during a weekday or whether it was held during an evening or weekend. I think that more age groups are represented when groups meet at times other than normal workday times. Glad you liked it and I hope you get to keep going!
ReplyDeleteWonderful observations and write up! I'm glad you chose to participate and had such a wonderful time. It sounds like a wonderful group!
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